Read this page before contacting me for a booking—it will answer most of your questions and will help you make an informed choice about whether we’ll be a good fit.
💰Tribute
My rates begin at $450 for the first hour, $300 for each subsequent hour, especially if the activities of our session fall entirely within my Yes list.
For items on my Maybe list, my rate may be slightly higher, especially if you’re booking me for a short duration.
I require an advance deposit of some kind. If using a dungeon I’ve recommended, then this deposit can take the form of you reserving and pre-paying for the space [provided I’m able to confirm with the dungeon that you have done so] instead of paying me a deposit. Note: I do not deduct the cost of dungeon/gym/hotel rentals or gifts from my rate. My rate is what I expect you to pay me, in cash.
I expect you to present tribute in full, in cash, at the beginning of our session.
🎁 Gifts
I’m not much of a material girl: after my basic needs are met, I put disposable income towards travel & training [which, in turn, coincide with my livelihood]. I travel light, so having too much “stuff” can bog me down: when I do splurge, it’s more often on experiences [trips, fine dining, spa days, immersive theater, extreme sports, intensive trainings, online courses, etc.] than things. Cash is my best means of accessing luxuries and whims, so it’s my preferred gift.
That said, if you’re a gift-giver, a few things I always love: artisanal chocolate, fine wine and liquor, good books [though I have far too many], select tech gadgets. Clothing-wise: I’m into quality and sustainability, abhor fast fashion, and favor sportswear, lingerie, swimwear, footwear, and session-compatible fetish wear. Ask if you want to know exactly what I’d like. Otherwise: anything so unusual I might not have thought of it is a good bet for pleasing me.
💚 Yes
What I offer—and most love!
Fantasy and Semi-competitive grappling or striking sessions
Beatdowns! I’m an experienced striker and would love to make you my punching bag. Punching, kicking, slapping, tickling, etc. [Note: this is a one-way street. I do not submit, and requests to do things like tie me up and tickle me will be ignored.]
Practicing specific grappling moves! If you’re experienced and there’s a choke or hold you especially love being subjected to, let me know!
Check my home page for a more qualitative idea of what I’m like in person, and my other interests!
💛 Maybe
What I might offer—on a case-by-case basis. Any or all of the following may be required: prior discussion over email, previous session together, higher rate, extra vetting. Ask in advance!
Competitive grappling or striking sessions [while I love getting competitive, I need to know that you’re sane enough not to injure me on purpose and that you’re skilled enough—or, if you’re extremely weak, weak enough—not to injure me by accident. Note: my opinion of your trustworthiness, skill level, and strength is for me to determine, not for you to tell me]
Foot fetish
Ball-busting
Photo/Video
Lift and carry
Other fetishes [as long as it’s not already on my list of No’s below, feel free to ask, as long as you can accept a possible “No”]
🛑 No
Don’t even ask for—and definitely do not surprise me with—any of the below.
Worship or groping of any parts of me that would be covered by a typical bikini
Manual genital contact [this also includes touching yourself]
Body fluids [or semi-solids, for that matter] of any kind, other than sweat
Nudity [minimum clothing: enough to be acceptable at a typical US public pool]
Any sensual elements that take me by surprise, e.g., kissing, grinding, groping, pornographic speech, etc. My proclivities lean more towards banter, laughter, domination, demolition—not sensuality. If you’re not sure whether something is okay that isn’t already explicitly mentioned on this list, ask ahead of time. Surprises = session-enders.
Anything that could likely cause permanent physical damage or death. This includes heavy medical play, choking you to unconsciousness, extreme ball-busting, etc.